i. loved. this!!!!! just because we know what we want and aren't afraid to correct when something isn't how we wanted it doesn't make us too demanding, or bratty - we're being direct. no point in pretending or acting like our food came the way we wanted it, when it's very clear the steak is undercooked, or the martini came wrong. being direct shouldn't be embarrassing or make us feel like we're a bother. i just know what i want - such a fun read!
Exactly!! 🥹 There’s nothing wrong with knowing what you want and saying it clearly. Being direct isn’t being difficult, it’s just being honest! So glad this resonated with you 🤍
I think this also happens a lot with autistic women as well. I have been told so many times how difficult I am or a brat, and while maybe I am, its very diminishing to myself as a person because why shouldn't I have specific wants? Im very lucky and grateful to have a boyfriend who gets joy out of me being who I am and loves me more than ever. ❤️
this is so good! haha, I may need to read this every morning just to remind myself. I need to be a bit more bratty. Not mean, just knowing what I want and articulating that!
i. loved. this!!!!! just because we know what we want and aren't afraid to correct when something isn't how we wanted it doesn't make us too demanding, or bratty - we're being direct. no point in pretending or acting like our food came the way we wanted it, when it's very clear the steak is undercooked, or the martini came wrong. being direct shouldn't be embarrassing or make us feel like we're a bother. i just know what i want - such a fun read!
Exactly!! 🥹 There’s nothing wrong with knowing what you want and saying it clearly. Being direct isn’t being difficult, it’s just being honest! So glad this resonated with you 🤍
Love!!!
Thank you sm love!!!!
I think this also happens a lot with autistic women as well. I have been told so many times how difficult I am or a brat, and while maybe I am, its very diminishing to myself as a person because why shouldn't I have specific wants? Im very lucky and grateful to have a boyfriend who gets joy out of me being who I am and loves me more than ever. ❤️
this is so good! haha, I may need to read this every morning just to remind myself. I need to be a bit more bratty. Not mean, just knowing what I want and articulating that!